Key Words we use include:
Good Listener (in reference to the decisions and choices we make, as in: "Are you being a good listener?")
Respectful and Responsible (in reference to cleaning up after oneself and to describe the way a person is acting, as in: what we say to someone who leaves the table without contributing to clean up.)
Acceptable (or Not Acceptable, as in: "this room is not acceptable.")
Appropriate (or Not Appropriate, as in: "your tone of voice {or the word you used} is not appropriate.")
I'm sure there are more. We use these words A LOT!
What are some key words in your family?