Auggie slept through the night for a few weeks and is back to waking up at least once. I found these skeleton jammies at Walmart for $5, and I'm glad I got them because they glow in the dark and make waking up in the middle of the night a little more fun. So fun, in fact, that at 3 a.m. this morning Joe and I were laughing together as we watched his skeleton body kick and squirm. Even though I do wish he would sleep more than 7 hours straight (or maybe I just need to go to bed earlier), he is a joy to be around. He is happy during the day and takes two long, consistent naps.
Oh my gosh, he's cute!
Ammon started preschool today! He is very excited that it is finally his turn to go to school. I asked him if he missed me and he politely told me, "No, not at all." I guess that is a good thing.
So what did Auggie and I do with our 4 hours alone? We took a walk and played together for a few minutes. We whipped up dinner and made two extras to take to other families. We visited a friend who just had adorable twin girls. I can't imagine! Next time I will find someone to watch Auggie first so I can help her hold and feed her babies without him getting jealous halfway through. We visited another friend whose baby is one week younger than Auggie. We got the babies together and they just smiled and smiled at each other. Then we came home, ate lunch, and picked up Ammon.
I have grand plans for our two days a week alone. Volunteer at school, clean, eat lunch with Dad, serve others in our community, go shopping, go visiting teaching, maybe even go back to bed. I'm not sure how to prioritize because they all sound so wonderful!
Logan, Madi, and Grant are all doing well at school as well. I am especially excited about Madison's teachers because she's excited about school. It sounds like they are making learning a lot of fun by using music and videos to teach language arts and science.
In all, today has been a really rewarding day. I know not everyone desires to be a stay-at-home mom, and not everyone has the opportunity to be a SAHM, but I am grateful for the choice, and I am happy with what I have chosen. I am grateful that Joe is happy with our choices as well, and thankful that he has the ability to support us.
Speaking of Joe (this might embarrass him a little bit), but I think he's amazing. Sometimes we get so caught up on making it through the day by fulfilling our role, whatever that may be, that by the end of the day we are both exhausted, and when that becomes a habit I think that it is easy to take each other for granted instead of acknowledging and appreciating what the other person does. Sometimes, if you are like me, you don't even know that is happening until something changes. The last few weeks Joe has broken that cycle in our family by being extra helpful and loving to everyone, but especially to me. I've noticed that as he makes more effort to help me that I want to make more effort to help him, and by the end of the day we might still be exhausted, but it is a happy and fulfilling exhaustion. Anyway, I won't get too mushy, but it has been a great experience and lesson to me about how love and kindness motivates and changes people, and if you feel a desire to break the exhaustion cycle in your home this might be a good experiment for you to try, too.
Finally,
this is the recipe I made today. I don't know if it will be any good, but if it is, it's a keeper because it looks fancy, will hopefully taste great, and is easy, easy, easy!
(Isn't it funny that we always try new recipes when we give our food away? Scary!)